APPARENTLY moving house is the most stressful thing you can
do.
So try moving house twice in 10 months, from one country to
another (a non-English-speaking one at that), and then to another, and see how
you feel.
In less than a year I’ve lived in three different countries.
I think I need to lie down and be horizontal at the very
thought of what’s happened in the past few months.
Hang on. Hmmm… I don’t own a sofa in this particular country
to lie down on.
Bugger.
Starting another new life in a foreign land is hard.
Finding a suitable place to live, in somewhere like San
Diego is also hard – especially when you start work before you find a place to
rest your weary head.
I’ve had no real reference of where’s good/not good to live.
Much to my annoyance I realized that I had to find a
place near public transport as California is the only state in the world it
seems that doesn’t recognize the INTERNATIONAL driving permit.
Hence why I’ve now got to re-take not only my practical, but
also my theory test, 15 or so years after passing it in the first place.
Grr. Yes, the French and Spanish drive on the other side of
the road too and we Brits don’t have to retake the test to drive there.
Anyhow, I digress.
If there’s one thing that you can be sure of when trying to
find an apartment to rent in San Diego it’s this – you will definitely, without
a doubt, deal with a bunch of bastards called ‘real’ estate agents.
‘Real?’ Don’t make me laugh.
I now hold them in the same esteem as mechanics, estate
agents and insurance companies.
In my eyes they are modern-day crooks with only red tape and
legislation keeping them from being on the ‘wrong’ side of the law.
In the dictionary under ‘thief’ I’m sure it should really
say ‘*see real estate agent’.
I seriously thought estate agents were the only people who
batted one person off another in a bid to get a more juicy commission.
It turns out these guys and girls are just the same.
Only here in SD, if they don’t think you’re serious about a
property they’ve got listed (i.e. willing to fork out a charge which they’ll
in-turn pocket), they won’t a). call you back; or b). reply to emails.
Some also arrange viewings, and wait until you’ve arrived for
the viewing to tell you that it’s no long available – unless of course you’re
willing to pay a whole YEAR’s rent up front.
The real estates agents I dealt with, excusing one or two
actual decent human beings, were put simply… complete bastards.
In between working full-time I’ve had to quickly get out
there and deal with these people, hoping that the next property will be
marketed by someone with a genuine smile.
Without boring everyone to tears with my rants I can tell
you that – amazingly – within a week, I found a comfy little apartment/condo
downtown.
Since finding it, it’s been all systems go to get myself
comfy and settled.
It took me six years to create my 'home' in the UK, and then
with love-strewn eyes, I gave it away.
I keep telling people here that I can't recreate a 'home' in
six days. These things take time.
And, I'm stupidly picky about what I want in my new home.
So that's why a few weeks after moving in to this place, I'm
still eating dinner sat on the kitchen work-top.
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| Yes, the minimalist approach... |
It's funny how boys' brains are wired up too.
I'm pretty sure a girl would first buy a bed, then things
for the kitchen and sitting room, followed possibly by food for the
fridge/freezer and cupboards.
Ahem.
I immediately looked online for a Fender Jaguar guitar and huge HD television. I then scanned Google for news of when the Sony PlayStation 4 is
being released, and then I bought food (mainly pizzas, pasta, coffee, and a
bottle of wine).
'Priorities Nichols, priorities…' I thought. Epic fail.
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| Huge TV purchase (so big that I couldn't actually fit in the car with it)... check! |
"What are you going to sleep on? A few pizzas and a bag
of oven chips?!" asked a colleague and friend.
Good question. Thankfully another friend stepped in with the
offer of an inflatable - and as I found out in the night - deflatable mattress.
Ten days after I got the keys, the world’s most friendly
apartment complex security guard (that’s what he’s officially known as now)
took me back to Tijuana to pick up mine, and Jacky’s, bed. (Before you ask she
has another one!)
Bringing it over the border was fun I can tell you.
Border patrol officer: “What’s this sir?”
“Er… is this, a trick question? Does it not look like a bed,
and… mattress?”
Cue poker game faces followed by…
“Would you mind pulling over for a secondary inspection
sir?”
Yes, they’re thorough (and quite rightly too I might add!)
So yes, I have a bed. Yay me. Oh sleep filled nights how
I’ve missed you.
Of course having a bed was one thing.
Having, um, stuff, was another.
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| Best go buy 'real' food shopping at some point eh? Aka not frozen pizza |
Jacks came over for the weekend and I offered to ‘make’
dinner - of course, not realizing at first that all my kitchen utensils are
8,000 miles away in England.
No scissors to open the cellophane packaging protecting the
food, no plate to put the food on, and no cutlery to eat it with in any case.
Going to a shop to ask for a single piece of cutlery was
also highly amusing, if a tad embarrassing.
You see, as I've found out in the last 10 months, the
English accent is often misplaced or misheard - even when it's the native
language.
So when I walk into a shop, with a facial expression
boasting strains of seriousness, hunger and desperation, and say
simply: "Hi... I really need a fork..." you can probably work out
what the shocked supermarket staff member thought I said.
In the end Jacks and I bought and ate pre-cooked chicken
with our fingers, while sitting on the kitchen work-top using plastic carrier
bags for plates.
Hardly fine-dining but it did the job. And it created a
memory.
My first ever trip to Ikea a couple of weeks ago resulted in
a near mental breakdown on my part. Wow, Ikea really is a clusterf*ck isn't it?!
I had to seriously psyche myself up for the second visit – and
I finally bought a few random bits like a potato masher, (really cool) knife,
waste paper bin (for the bathroom...?), and a toilet brush.
Epic fail again.
Eventually I went back with a real vengeance and bought just
about everything a man living by himself needs. No plants, nothing pretty, a clock, mainly just
necessities – like a bottle opener.
Cheers
T
